It’s your abilities, ​not your experience

A common misconception among returners is that we are not hirable. That inner roommate likes to flood your brain with thoughts to convince you that you will never find a job. “I’m too old, no one will be interested” and “I’ve been away for so long; my experience is so outdated” are common refrains. So howContinueContinue reading “It’s your abilities, ​not your experience”

The Returners’ Dilemma

Fellow returners, do you sometimes feel that you are suffering from Returners’ Settling Syndrome? Ok, so maybe I made that name up, but it is a VERY REAL feeling. You know that stoic resignation you feel when accepting a position that isn’t exactly what you thought you would take. Why do we feel like we are “settling”ContinueContinue reading “The Returners’ Dilemma”

A Perfectly Imperfect Re-entry Tale

You GOT the job! After what seems like an eternity of looking you are ready to start your new job. You have that feeling you get on a roller coaster as you head for the first drop, nervous but excited. There is a vision in your head of a parade heralding your triumphant return toContinueContinue reading “A Perfectly Imperfect Re-entry Tale”

Just Keep Swimming, Just Keep Swimming….

I was talking with some fellow women returners, well not really talking more like corresponding. We were messaging each other. Frustration with the lack of progress in finding a job was one of our topics. Something we certainly can all relate to. It got me thinking about a previous post Never Give Up! How to KeepContinueContinue reading “Just Keep Swimming, Just Keep Swimming….”

Looking Beyond Ourselves

Asking for help can be one of the most difficult BUT one of the most essential activities  “returners” should do when looking for a job. In one of our earlier blog posts,  Taking the First Step – So now You have Decided to Go Back to Work  our blogger, Clare Graham, offered some thoughts about networkingContinueContinue reading “Looking Beyond Ourselves”

Never Give Up! How to Keep a Positive Attitude

Ouch! Rejection hurts. No-one ever likes to hear the words “You aren’t the one.” However, rejection is a regular and normal part of the job search process. There is the “I’m sorry, we went with someone else” message you receive after a set of really good interviews. Or how about the “I’m sorry, after reviewing yourContinueContinue reading “Never Give Up! How to Keep a Positive Attitude”